Hi Kerry,
The names you like are so similar -- it's really too bad that you guys haven't been able to agree. Here are some ideas:
--You pick your favorite, and he picks his. Flip a coin to determine which name becomes the first name and which becomes the middle.
--Tweak the names you've chosen. Maybe if they're in a slightly different form (e.g., Ayden, Collin, Ythan) one of you will be willing to budge.
--Make a list of 100 entirely new names (ones that are similar to the ones you both like -- 2-syllable names that end with an N). Separately, each of you pick out, say, the 30 you like best. Then get together and see if there was any overlap (hopefully there will be). Those "overlap" names become the new shortlist.
Here are 100 names that could be part of the "start over" list:
Ryan, Dalton, Darren, Dawson, Logan, Bryson, Caiden, Dion, Cohen, Alan, Ammon, Amin, Eben, Adan, Alston, Austin, Barron, Boston, Brayan, Lennon, Mason, Calvin, Camden, Camron, Orson, Levin. Carson, Colton, Cullen, Keagan, Milan, Lyndon, Morgan, Dallin, Deavon, Dayton, Declan, Dylan, Draven, Tobin, Craven, Easton, Fulton, Gannon, Hayden, Holden, Tristan, Jaeden, Jaxon, Aaron, Aeden, Jordon, Keaton, Kelton, Keenan, Kenton, Kieran, Korbin, Landen, Jalon, Jason,Lawson, Devin, Eldon, Owen, Kyan, Lucian, Paxton, Payton, Alden, Jaylon, Jensen, Reagan, Rustin, Seldon, Vinton, Watson, Winton, Tyron, Urban, Zayden, Rylan, Soren, Alton, Allen, Brian, Cason, Damon, Gavin, Haven, Hazen, Johan, Kevin, Kylan, Nevin, Orion, Rayan, Roman, Rowan, Tevin
Good luck, Kerry. I really hope you guys are able to work something out.